Introducing Chaya Milchtein: A LGBTQ+ Trailblazer on TikTok

Chaya Milchtein, also known as @mechanicshopfemme on TikTok, is an educator and journalist with a unique talent for explaining complex automotive concepts in a way that everyday people can understand. She is passionate about providing automotive industry education to those who are often overlooked. Chaya launched Mechanic Shop Femme in June 2017 and has been featured in various publications, including AARP and Oprah Magazine. Her videos not only provide valuable automotive insights but also promote the visibility of fat queer individuals in the automotive conversation, all while showcasing her glamorous outfits.

When asked about the meaning of Pride, Chaya goes beyond the traditional definitions related to sexuality and gender. To her, Pride means refusing to fade into the background and not diminishing her true self to be more acceptable. It means embracing her identity fully, supporting her community, and speaking out against injustice in all its forms. Pride is not just about rainbows and parades; it is about living as a complete human being who loves, feels pain, and experiences sorrow. Chaya emphasizes the importance of being part of a community that can become a family, while acknowledging its flaws and actively contributing to its growth.

Chaya's identity has been shaped by her upbringing in a Chassidic Jewish home and her experience in foster care. Coming out shortly after entering the foster care system was unexpected, but it led her to a community that taught her how to flourish and supported her unconditionally. Starting a business that supports this community was a natural choice for Chaya. She wanted to use her knowledge and experience to empower her community, helping them understand their vehicles, save money, and alleviate the fear often associated with car repairs.

In celebrating and supporting the LGBTQ+ community, Chaya believes in uplifting and amplifying the voices of those who are most marginalized. She also takes concrete actions to support the community financially.

Chaya's journey on TikTok has been inspiring. Initially unfamiliar with video content, she was overwhelmed by the positive response from the community when she started creating videos. Now, creating video content has become her primary way of sharing information and connecting with people in ways she never thought possible. Every time she scrolls through her For You Page, she learns new things, finds inspiration from others, and reaffirms her commitment to educating and empowering women and queer individuals in the automotive field.

When asked about advice for the next generation of the LGBTQ+ community, Chaya emphasizes that the fight for equality is not over. Marriage equality is not the ultimate goal; there is still more work to be done.

To be an ally to the LGBTQ+ community, Chaya suggests actively learning, adjusting one's language, and speaking up in uncomfortable moments.

Finally, Chaya recommends following LGBTQ+ TikTok creators such as @rynnstar, @seansvv, and @mercurystardust.